everyone has friends who, for good or for worse come in and out of their lives. i’ve a few friends who when i was in highschool were extermely close but as time goes on, we grew apart - we may have kept in touch sporadically, but nothing consistent past adulthood. technology served as a great medium to talk, but not talk. everyone sort of kept tabs on each other by sending forwards, and not really talking about anything of substance…
that now brings me back to present day.
after we said our vows, and the proverbial dust has ssettled, i sent out some emails to those i didn’t have a chance to call or text (or those who i probably didn’t want to speak to to break the iceor whatever. anyway…i did send the same email to two friends that fall into that category. i’m not sure what i really expected, but for the most part, i received emails of congratulations and just general acknowledgement. and ostensibly absent were replies from two i expected to hear almost immediately from. i’m not sure whether i was angry, upset, or just disappointed. i’m not so sure that i’ve had any right to feel any of those feelings…but i suppose there is just a little bit of of something that says well, fine…if you don’t want to talk to me, i don’t want to talk to you either…
does that make sense? so anyway, as i’ve griped about it all this morning, lo and behold, this afternoon, i received an email back from one of the friends…maybe it’s a way to tell me that someone just wanted me to have patience…don’t know…being stupid i suppose…or maybe just a girl…lol
~ciao